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Georgetown when he started going to the gym that was fine but I totally disagreed with him injecting illegal steroids, which he was overdosing on in copious amount in the hopes that would make him even bigger.
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That is a lot to say. So much. Did you dsting professional help anytime during the eight years? There was no talk of divorce, but another woman literally jumped him the day we were separated. It seems highly unlikely that she wasn't around. People don't usually just "show up" the moment someone is separated. Not wanting to cause trouble here, but you must have been a little suspicious? The whole situation is very sad.
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That will hurt you in time by affecting your own health. Wow — after making the choice after my marriage break-ups to just leave all of the betrayal behind and chose a totally new life in such a way that I would even know what the future held for them, not to even be around to interfere or even make a single solitary act or word of vindictiveness towards separatoon about anyone involved, and instead concentrate on salvaging my own separation and dating, taking the high road sepafation totally non-vindictive stance who would separation and dating thought that would get me called vindictive!
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Who would have thought! As a psychologist you should know better about making these kinds of correlations.
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Looking back it is so uncanny. After waxing on about how bad these woman were for getting involved with married men it turned out to be her close friend who was guilty of this — and she was now a friend of my ex-husband as. Totally ironic but it was a totally friendly conversation because so much time had passed since that happened.
She then proceeded to tell me everything even though I never made a single enquiry. This woman left my work not long after that and I never saw her. It was like that I was meant to find out even though I went out of my way not to by taking the high separation and dating and totally avoided the low road.
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Are we supposed to see each other a certain number of times a week? Do we tell people? Do we tell the kids?